I'm sad now....

aw, man....my Best friend in the WHOLE wide world was really mean to me in front of my mom, so my mom isn't gonna let me hang out with her....i can't stand up to defend myself because she'll get mad, and when i don't defend myself, she'll keep on saying things i dont wanna hear....but.....is it just all my fault? am i too nice for my own good or something....? =( i need some advice, dudes..... help? please?

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change friends

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gimpnoid
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2ROCK what kind of friends do you have? maybe you should look for friends in a different school ha ha

boy, are you right about that, Gimp. i lent my favorite book to one of my friends and i never got it back. and what sucks is that i was using my heart braclet as a bookmark and forgot it was in there. yeah, that sucker is probabl hanging from her wrist right this very minute. and get this; every time i see her i ask her if i can get my book back and she'll have an excuse like 'it's at home' or 'i forgot it on top of my dresser', so i just gave up on giving it back. my other friends told me not to lend her stuff too late, so she never even got a pencil from me after that

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-Willow

well yes ,,ive lost too many things to people ,,friends suk sometimes

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gimpnoid
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yea, next time i see her i have to get all my pokemon back, get my game and wii nunchuk, and also give her back her video game *which i beat, so IN HER FUKING FACE*

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-Willow

tell her next time you see her

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gimpnoid
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hahahahaha, i'll do that, but the thing is...... ^.^" is that she don't know we're not friends anymore......funny story, really...... ^.^"""""

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-Willow

tell your ex friend to take a couple of chill pills and chillax

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gimpnoid
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thanks, kala....but, it's hard to find a new best friend, you know? plus, it's really hard if your ex best friend was part of basically your entire life. we'd just celebrated 10th bfffl (best female friends for life) anniversary when this happened.....but, hey i reall should look for a new friend. since my mom made such a big deal out of it, i realized...that my friend has been putting me down and crushing my confidence in things im excited about, and things i know more. like, im waaaaay good at video games, and she takes a few weeks/months to do them, you know? well, i got a new guitar hero game last christmas, and i let her try it. she couldn't beat a few songs, so she asked me to play them for her. i did and got almost every note correct. so, wen i tried to give her the guitar back, she was all like 'nope, you play. you're obviously better. i'm just gonna get rid of my guitar games now since i suck so bad.' and i told her 'it just takes practice....i wasn't too good when i first started.' her response was 'no. you're wrong. you almost always are *note this is not true. im almost always RIGHT* wrong, and i suck at this. so, just keep playing while i call my mom and ask her to get all my buitar hero stuff.' so i turned off my game and said that maybe we'd hung out too much that week *if we hang out toomuch we get irritated with each other*and needed to take a break for a while.

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-Willow

Hey 2ROCK, people will never try to understand you, is easier if you try to understand them. Mothers use to be... mothers, not good or bad, only mothers. They believe they are always right and they are sure that they are doing the best for you-THAT'S IMPORTANT, so I suggest you to find a way to understand that your mother is always trying to protect you.
And your friend... well she has a different idea of friendship so accept her just like she is or look for a new best friend

you guys are such great friends....=) i lvoe you all *in a friendly kind of way*

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-Willow

Your mom should come round in time, so hang on in there! "Just keep smiling! You got to believe in yourself as no one will believe in YOU". When Ozzy wrote those words he was and still is Right!

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Number 1

ha ha ha ha ha yep

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gimpnoid
http://www.metalofoz.com/

Hey, I feel pretty bad now. Does that count?

a real friend would feel bad sooner,,

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gimpnoid
http://www.metalofoz.com/

Boy, I can understand how your mom feels. And if she didn't get a little pissed, well that wouldn't be right either. Gimp's right this time, for a change. You do need to try to get your mom to listen to you, and to hear your feelings. But remember, that's a tough thing for a parent to do sometimes. And if this girl is truly your friend, she will try to make it up to you. People do have bad days, and do say and do things that hurt their friends. However, real friends will feel bad about what happened, sooner or later.

why would you want to hang out with someone who picks on you,,and demand mum to listen

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gimpnoid
http://www.metalofoz.com/

hm.....i don't know....my mom was pretty pissed and she hardly ever listens to me, even when i tell her to....well, maybe my friend will appologize, because my mom said that if she did and that she changed her attitude, she'd let me hang out with her again, but not as much as before.... v.v

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-Willow

hey give it a bit of time and then tell mumsy to take a seat get her a cuppa and explain yourself,,and ask her to listen to you without saying anything,,,,,and if my best friend ever made fun of me ,,well there would be trouble and i would find a new friend

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gimpnoid
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