Maybe you can talk to him and tell him you really want an honest answer about his intentions. That you've heard him say yes but waffling for a long time says no. You're interested but would rather him not misleading you to thinking something is going to happen but it doesn't.
Maybe he's someone who never learned how to say no so he lies thinking that's somehow easier. Guess it just shows you how a lie feels on the receiving end. Lying in some social circles is considered better then being up front. He probably thinks you'll "get the message" and drop it. f*** the guy.
Maybe the guy is a jerk. Blow him off! There are tons of musicians. Put an ad in the local paper. You may hook up that way.
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